"I never knew what communication drills were before I started working with
Les and Anita on them. I never realized how important GOOD communication is in
our everyday life, and how much good communication is lacking now-a-days. Also,
I learned you don't have to respond in a harsh manner, even if someone said
something really awful to you. You can just acknowledge you heard them and go on
with your day! Amazing! The main thing I learned is I'm in control of how I
react, confront, acknowledge, and communicate with people. I choose what or how
I will respond. These drills have made me brighter, more aware of my thoughts,
and a great communicator. I didn't realize how well these drills incorporated in
my life until recently I was faced with a very tough situation. If I never
learned these drills I would have flown off the handle. But I confronted it,
analyzed it, and put it into good communication with the person I was dealing
with. AND I felt fantastic after!" KH 2008
"Doing the communication drills has been such a positive experience for me. I
feel such a new confidence in my ability to stay in communication with anyone
about anything. My drilling partner has helped to make this such a great
adventure. I look forward to doing so much more as we move ahead. Having the
knowledge and really being able to apply it will help in every relationship I
have now and down the road. This is great." PJ 2008
"I began the Communication Drills. I realized during the first drill how 'far away' I really was. It was incredibly beneficial, and I know it will help me do a whole lot better in my speech class next semester. I am now not staring off into space when I speak to people, and although I still speak slowly I no longer lose my train of thought at the slightest distraction (which used to happen more often than I'm willing to admit). I had a super fun drilling partner and an amazingly patient supervisor. I came up through nine tough and hard communication drills. After I completed them, the first person I used my newly acquired skills on (communicating with intention mostly) wasn't even a person: it was a squirrel I was trying to photograph at the Lowry Park Zoo. It's a great picture, by the way." RS 2008
"This day, is the most glorious day of my life so far. I feel it is the beginning of ME. The "be there" routine was the most empowering experience ever for me, for it is the first time I've ever felt SERENITY. All effort and strain and uneasiness disappeared and what was left was beautiful. It was just me being with me.........and another!" BJ
"I had several hours of auditing* yesterday. It was incredible! I realized that there was a key incident with my mother which made me withhold certain abilities in my art all my life long. I suddenly felt I could just go to it and paint and draw in a certain way that I had always been thinking about but never was able to do. At one point I felt like a butterfly that had lived in a small box and suddenly it could stretch out it's wings. I came home last night and had so much energy unknown to me before. I feel very grateful!" CM
"I have been receiving counseling from Anita Warren and have been having
excellent consistent gains. An especially big gain for me was on a 'paralysis
assist' used on my left arm which was paralyzed by a stroke I had last year. I
had almost given up hope that I would move or use this arm and hand again, but
with this 'paralysis assist' I was finally moving my fingers and hand again.
What a thrill it was to me to be able to experience that after so long. The
sessions have been fabulous and have been delivered by Anita most
professionally. Great thanks and gratitude." JZ
"Recent sessions with Anita have been of tremendous help to me, releasing
grief and pain from a motorcycle accident, the loss of my left leg, many
surgical events, and the death of my parents. I also had a minor event with eye
infection during her visit which she handled. Her many 'assists' and skills
brought relief of pain and emotional trauma. I have very little cartilage left
in my remaining knee, arthritis, calcium deposits and bone chips from falls. I
was facing knee replacement surgery and several months of down time. I believe
Anita's counseling has prevented this. The knee was so painful I could hardly
walk prior to the sessions. After, I find myself able to walk and the pain
reduced to a factor that is livable without surgery. I had many gains and was
delighted to spend time with Anita. She brings out the best in me and lightens
my soul." GM
"Since becoming ill almost two years ago with hemolytic anemia I have had
over 100 blood transfusions. Early this year in addition to the anemia I had
fevers of unknown origin and emergency surgeries for removal of my gall bladder,
and part of my large intestine. My prognosis and survival were questionable.
Since I began therapy with Anita my condition has improved dramatically. I
cannot say whether it is a medical miracle, the therapy, or both that is
responsible for the improvement in my health. I can say that Anita's efforts
relaxed me and gave me a more positive attitude." GK
"After a series of stressful and traumatizing events, at the age of thirty
seven years old I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. In order to facilitate
my healing, I experimented with the standard conventional medical treatment of
the immunosuppressant drugs. I started a regimen of bio-chemical vitamins,
undergone sessions in vibrational medicine and participated in Buddhists chants.
All of these things worked slightly, but nothing worked like this 'spiritual
assist technology.' The effects are instantaneous and permanent. I feel better.
The energy in my body has undergone a big change. Watch out world--here I come!"
RB
"After two sessions I noticed that I no longer was obsessed by food. For many years I've suffered from an eating disorder that caused great suffering in my life. Nearly every waking moment I was obsessed by food and have suffered from overweight. I have been active the past year and a half in Overeaters Anonymous--a twelve step program for people with eating disorders. Compulsive overeating created a great many problems in my life. After two sessions this compulsion left me. I still have a normal healthy appetite but I'm not consumed by thoughts of food. I can go long periods of time without eating and not think about food. This is a miraculous thing in my life. An eating disorder is a horrible burden to carry around in your life. I have witnessed what it does in the lives of the others who belong to Overeaters Anonymous. It is indeed a miracle to be released from this. I am very grateful for this release and the counseling that made this possible. Thank you for your help, Anita." PV
"I came here to Florida with a question, and the answer--no matter what it was--would change my life indefinitely. I was uncomfortable in my own body: it was female, and I just had to be male. I was a straight woman, but felt deep down that I was a gay man. I decided, with the help of my parents, to get auditing before I did anything drastic (taking hormones and getting SRS: Sexual Reassignment Surgery). I didn't need my parents to push me into getting help. In all truth, I was on the fence--the worst place to be. I had three choices: begin the transition, continue pretending to be female, or destroy myself. I would feel grief when I knew I shouldn't, and seeing pictures of handsome guys only turned up the volume on the feeling. When I wore girls' clothes it was more like for show: I usually dressed up as a girl for Halloween (the scariest thing I could become). The only time I seriously considered dressing as a girl was the time when I put on a dress and was reduced to be a pile of teary, depressed muck on my bedroom floor. I didn't leave my room until I was in 'suitable' men's' clothes. The only girl I could be was a cross dressing man. I watched 'The Secret' and asked the universe, with every fiber of my being, to make this uninhabitable body male somehow (it worked in a way: after that decision I came across a LOT of information on FTM transitioning). I remember finding a transman online who had gone through his transition and I would cry just looking at his pictures (it was hard to believe he was ever female--all traces of his femininity were washed away by hormone therapy and 'top surgery,' and he looked amazing). I looked up 'transman' and 'FTM', eventually finding Hudson's FTM Guide. Whenever I talked about it to friends, I would get excited. It seemed like I had hope. I knew I was a girl, but I also knew that I would grow up to be a man--it was the only thing that made sense at the time. When I looked in the mirror, I saw a boy. When I thought about myself, I was a boy. I felt the irresistible urge to correct people when they called me by feminine pronouns (she/her), and I often did. Most of my friends got used to it, often referring to me as 'he.' My best friend was in medical school and told me she would help me give myself testosterone (via bimonthly intramuscular injection). People who knew me called me by 'he/his,' and most strangers simply guessed or avoided using either pronoun. I masculinized my name and was determined to change it legally. I wore an Ace bandage around my chest, and cut my hair short. I wore only men's clothes. Still, I had the feeling that maybe--just MAYBE--I would realize something during my 'auditing' and I would change my mind. And that's precisely what happened. Auditing was originally proposed by my parents, but I had no objections whatsoever. And so began my journey to 'find myself.' I traveled across the country by plane to see my auditor. What I sought became known as my 'answer.' I went from San Francisco to Tampa. I became set on deciding for myself which path I would go down, narrowing my options down to two: become a man or a woman. I jumped straight into sessions with Les, my auditor. It was a truly mind-blowing, life changing, incredible experience that wrenched my 'answer' right up from the depths of my mind. In the end, I found the source of my problem was a past life incident! It seems so silly afterwards. I felt the weight lift from my shoulders, and finally I could breathe (removing the Ace bandage helped with this too). The depressing grief I used to feel left and didn't come back. Les, Anita, and even the other clients around here were so, so, so supportive. Anita took me shopping (for the 'real test'), and when I tried on girls' clothes... voila! No pain, no grief. The sky wasn't falling, and the walls were still solid. I didn't grow antennae or an extra set of arms. I was right there, admiring my female body in clothes that actually fit. For the next few days, I only wore girls' clothes, and not only was I fine with it, I actually enjoyed it. I texted my friend in medical school and carefully told her I wasn't going to transition. The message she sent back to me was: 'As long as you feel better about yourself that's all that matters to me.' I also broke the news to my online pen pal and best friend (who knows me only as a gay man), and she accepted me as I truly am much better than I expected (she's still my super awesome best friend for life!). I haven't told many other people, but I'm expecting the worst and hoping for the best. But I know now that it's not anyone's decision but mine." RS 2008
"When my oldest child was 4 years old, I had noticed that he was changing. He seemed to be angry with me more and more often, and sometimes he had quite a temper! I couldn't identify what had caused this change in behavior, so I wasn't able to address the source of the problem. We took him in for some light counseling, and I was blown away by the changes in him! My sweet little boy was back! All the anger he had for me had completely dissipated. He was full of love and his communication to me really opened up. I was so happy! And it took less than 10 hours in session! The auditing* was so light and affirming to him. He wasn't made wrong for his earlier troublesome behavior. Instead, the auditor* addressed him as a spiritual being, and the results were truly remarkable! He loved his auditing* so much that after his 3rd session he told me that he wanted to be an auditor* himself when he grew up. After his 4th session, he said he wanted to teach others to be auditors,* so that 'all the bad guys can be good.' I sensed a feeling of great relief in him. He was no longer at the effect of these negative impulses. My son is now a wonderful 9 year old boy. He is very loving to his entire family and he is one of my best friends. I have to say that this was one of the very best decisions I have ever made as a parent." JJ
"I had many problems about study. The symptoms that you learn about in 'Study Technology' I realized are the signs of disaster. Until I studied such an interesting course I now realize that the power or learning is nowhere but inside ME!" KP
"I liked this course a lot because I know for sure it can help me to improve my ability to learn any subject. When I finished this course I knew that it can help other people to improve their lives. I really want to turn back the clock to my university again because I think if I had used this principle then, I could have gotten an A in every subject." SL
"I have changed. My ability to study and understand subjects I took in school was declining year after year. I lost interest in every subject, to the point that I didn't read a book for 17 years. However, this course has unlocked a door of dreams. I can follow them now, without those hidden barriers. If you take this course, your future will change." TS
"I hated my husband. It sounds awful, but I hated the sight of him. What I
used to see as beautiful, strong, and full of integrity, I now hated. I didn't
want to look at him and the slightest communication would turn to battle. I
wanted to leave him and find someone worthy of me. When he walked in the door
from work, we didn't even look at each other. We were enemies and the air was
thick with bitterness. Even others could feel it without a word or a look. It
poisoned the air. We hadn't been talking for so long that we started being suspicious of
each other's motives around the house and noticed every flaw, cursing each other
under our breath. And we both 'figured' the other thought this or that, when we
didn't! I was walking around the house arguing with him in my mind! Constantly! I'd heard the speed in which this method of Marriage Counseling resolved
marriage conflicts. But I didn't even feel like I ever wanted to like him again
so why do it? Well... because I should. I had no other reason. So I did. A Marriage Counselor came to our home and without being affected
by the awful feelings in the air, she began our session. We continued for about
5 hours the first day and another 3 the next day. After the first day, we were
talking again, but the real closeness was not back yet. But we both felt it
coming. We didn't discuss much, we decided to keep things light and let the next
day's session do what it would. And it did. I can't begin to tell you what it did. Near the end of the
session, it all came together. Where did the bitterness go and where had this
deep affection been hiding? It was back for both of us really strong like a new
cloud-9 love. So incredible. After that we talked about everything. You know how when you're first
together after you've gotten comfortable enough to talk about almost anything?
Well, it was like that only better. See, we had no urge to hold anything back.
It was so safe to be completely open with each other and we were so freed of our
bitterness and judgmental feelings. We could hear what the other had to say not
only without upset, but with pure joy that the other could actually communicate
so openly. We planned. We discussed differences and were able to come to
fulfilling agreements. We wrestled. We made love really, for the first time. And
we WANTED to talk! We couldn't stop talking to each other. And after talking, we
found out that most of our upsets were actually 'misunderstandings'.
The main joy was in feeling constantly like I wanted to hold him. He felt that
way too. We couldn't pass one another in the hall without hugging. It's been a
year since our counseling and we're still doing quite well. We want to do it
again in the near future. It's just too magical to not keep that way. We
discussed how long people go to therapists for marriage counseling and sometimes
do a little better after a long time, but too often they wind up divorcing. Our
marriage was made new again in two days. Actually, in eight, short, fascinating
hours." TS
"Chris and I had been married for nine years and together for 13 when we got this 'marriage counseling.' We hadn't really been happy since early in our dating years, but somehow had stuck it out because we wanted to be together and kept HOPING it would work. In ONE WEEK of this 'marriage counseling' our marriage completely turned around. We started CREATING our marriage again. All the vitality and enthusiasm we had had in the early years was back! We were physically, spiritually and emotionally reconnected as a result of the 'marriage counseling' and I would have to say we have one of the best marriages around today!" KD
"In 1990 K and I were nearing divorce. It was very hard for us to communicate without getting into an argument. A friend of ours told us about this 'marriage counseling' program. Of course I had no interest in this because I was certain it would not work. My friend insisted we go and drove us up. We took a couple basic courses and then started the marriage counseling. Wow, after a few sessions our feelings for each other were starting to increase. It was like all the tension and problems we had were completely gone. By the time we were done, I actually felt as in love with Kim as when we were dating. It was truly amazing. We just could not believe how good it was. It was like everything that was messing our marriage up was gone. We had a new life together. Well, ten years have gone by now and we are still in love and creating a wonderful family together. Pretty neat." JD
"Before Anita Warren came into my life I was a lost spirit stuck in the sink hole of drug abuse. Anita saved my life and showed me the way out. She believed in me at the lowest and saddest time in my life. No money (drug devil ate it up), no hope, a night-mare. That's what WAS, this is what IS: I'm on course. My spirit is alive and well. I know who I am. I am drug free and I am starting the 'purification program' tomorrow. I'm looking forward to being physically 'drug purified.' Anita is my role model." BJ
"This was my third day of counseling with Anita. I still seemed to be running into blocks that kept me from opening my mind. She suggested I think of an injury. I immediately recalled when I broke my arm fourteen years ago. As I recalled the incident, I flashed to other incidents of my life, some much earlier and some very recently, that had the same sort of 'incident-emotion-result.' Somehow I had equated being physically or emotionally hurt to personal gratification! 'I'd be injured, so I'd be loved!' The attention I wanted would be granted to me only if I went through the 'pain' to earn it! What a discovery! Thank you Anita." PW
"This is what happened during my auditing* with Anita Warren. We started the session and a cross flew by my eyes. I recalled a time when I was three years old and my parents had left me in the care of a very nice older woman. Across the street lived the priests that took care of the local churches. I was sexually assaulted there and recalled all the pain of that experience until it had no charge and I could believe that it was real. Since the time of the session I have had periods of sadness and a sense of relief. I feel the experience justifies a lot of things in my life and it made the way clear to go ahead." VM
"I recently had the occasion to receive auditing* from Anita Warren. I was not doing so well in life. Anita rolled up her sleeves and got busy applying the 'technology' to me. Well, needless to say the 'technology' did the job, as I am back on my feet and winning at life. One of my biggest realizations was on the 'succumb factors' of life. I now realize there are games and then there are GAMES and that I had better watch which ones I play. I also realize that I need to continue getting the training I started out to get twenty years ago but kept falling off the path. When I told Anita I needed more knowledge about making decisions regarding the future she made sure I got a copy of the perfect book on this subject. Thank you for getting my life back on track." EL
"While doing the 'Exchange by Dynamics' technique, I realized that as a human being the primary goal is to find out who I am. Unless my activities are in tune with that goal, they are a distraction. Mutual encouragement and support are necessary elements. When that ceases, my activities/relationships are a hindrance. Through my childhood and its strife, the lack of positive exchange caused limitations. What goal or responsibility is greater than self-awareness? How can I make meaningful contribution to any activity unless my goal is clear?" BH
*Auditing is a type of communication which is used in a private session. It consists of asking a person a question, getting the person to look into his mind for the answer, finding the answer, and giving the answer to the auditor. An auditor by definition is "one who listens." The auditor acknowledges the person's answers but does not evaluate those answers. Auditing gets rid of barriers that inhibit a person's abilities. The person becomes more able. His survival, happiness, and intelligence increase enormously.